The Inspiring Reading
I read a lot. Here's what I am reading right now.
I am reading between 30-50 books per year. I just finished reading:
‘The Power of No’ by James Altucher and Claudia Azula Altucher
This is the second book by James Altucher that I recommend. In one of my earlier newsletters, I also brought to your attention his Reinvent Yourself masterpiece. I do love this author.
This book conveys my long-held belief that we should actively train ourselves to say ‘No’. It’s not always easy – in fact, as consultants it always feels like we’re going to disappoint our clients if we say those dreaded two letters.
However, as Altucher brilliantly explains in this book, learning to say ‘No’ at the right time (or, rather, to the wrong things) will give you back your power and save you time and trouble. It will give you a better understanding of yourself and those around you.
The 3 main things I learned from this book:
1. Saying No empowered me to stay in my lane all the time. Altucher provides simple techniques to learn to say No, both in personal and professional lives.
2. Saying No is not easy at all. In a world full of opportunity, we need to overcome our deep-rooted need to respond to everything. To become visible as an authority, we need to be ruthless in discerning what is important and what is just noise.
I’ve seen so many consultants fear saying ‘No’ to ill-suited opportunities in order to please a client (and earn an income), compromising their market credibility and ultimately seriously compromising their future consulting growth.
3. Getting better by saying No. It seems like a huge contradiction for many consultants: how are you supposed to grow by saying no and doing less? The Jack of All Trades has no chance to survive. You either specialize and stand out in the very crowded consulting market or you’d better start looking for a regular job.
If you are struggling with protecting yourself from saying Yes to everything, Altuchers book is a great starting point.
I also recommend listening to James Altucher’s podcast, where he regularly interviews people in business and entertainment.